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3/10/2010 @ 9:46:34 am by bettermentally.com

Getting Help for Mental Illness

Getting help for mental illness is not always easy. Mental illness has carried a stigma with it for decades. People will say that mentally ill people are just crazy and should be put in a hospital. The other myths are that it is a rare illness or the person is just weak. This is not true, in fact, one out of three people are diagnosed with some type of mental illness sometime in their life. Some ways to recognize if you possibly have an illness and need to seek treatment include suicidal thoughts, feelings of overwhelming emotions such as anger or despair, drinking too much, doing drugs, and questionable health.

If you feel you need immediate help don’t hesitate to dial your local emergency assistance. You can also go to the local hospital emergency room for assistance. Your local phone book is a great resource to also find help if you need some advice or someone to talk to. Many local communities have a crisis hot line you can call or a referral agency that can point you to someone that can talk with you.

You can also see your family physician so they can do a complete physical and make sure that you are not just imagining things. Your doctor is also a great resource in referring you to a mental health clinic or psychiatrist if needed. Another great way to get help for mental illness is a local support group or self-help group. It is always helpful to be around people that share similar experiences.

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3/9/2010 @ 9:37:34 am by bettermentally.com

Finding a Hobby

After long days of drudgery, it is easy to use your time off and just laze around doing nothing. After a while, you realize that months, and even years have gone by and you have little to show for your free time. Finding something you are passionate about is important on many levels. Not only does it help us live a little more positively and enjoy our lives that much more, but it also sets us up for a pleasantly challenging and rewarding retirement.

Finding something you love isn’t always easy. For some, the inclination to stay active and participate in sporting activities is natural, but for others, finding your niche can be a challenge. Humans are happier and healthier when they do what they enjoy, so if you aren’t sure what that is, why not try all kinds of things? Eventually, you will stumble across a hobby you can stick to. Finding a hobby makes you more interesting to others as well, and if you can find something you are passionate about, that energy tends to spread.

Begin by brainstorming things that interest you. Sometimes, those interests can be developed if you give them a chance. Check out art galleries, museums, and even flea markets for ideas. You might have talent you didn’t know you had. Collecting might interest you as well, and eventually whatever you collect may become valuable. Watch sports events on TV. You may just decide you like them. Try getting outside and experiencing nature. You will be surprised at what you see when your mind and heart are as open as your eyes.

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3/8/2010 @ 10:33:09 am by bettermentally.com

Controlling Stress

Current turbulent economic times are causing stress for all Americans. We all need a certain amount of pressure to do our best. It's when we feel we can't cope with the demands in our lives is when pressure becomes stress. If we don't deal with it, it can lead to anxiety and depression. There are many strategies we can use to deal with stress and move forward with our lives.

For example, make a plan of what you would do if you lost your job. Having a plan is a way to stay in control and feel less vulnerable. The most important thing you can do is to have a human connection and hold onto relationships. Talk things over with family and friends you can confide in. Join support groups and learn about things you can do for your situation that will work. Go to the source and get the facts right so that you won't worry over misinformation or rumors.

Don't abuse alcohol, smoking, or food. Eating right, getting enough exercise and sleep goes a long way in reducing stress. Ask yourself why you are feeling hopeless, angry, anxious, or panicky. What was it that made you feel that way or was it something you did? Answering these questions will help you look forward and make appropriate choices for positive changes in your life. See a psychologist or psychiatrist if you are overwhelmed by your emotions. If money matters are stressing you out, seek the advice of financial planners or credit counselors. Always know your limitations and don't take on too much. Take a break to relax and recharge, and remember that faith and meditation have also been shown to be major stress reducers.

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3/7/2010 @ 10:33:09 am by bettermentally.com

Setting Realistic Goals

Well, here we are, New Year's Eve, and another New Year's resolution will be made. This is the time of year that almost everyone decides to do something to change their lives. The resolutions are made, now how do we keep them? It is a known fact that 90% of us have given up by March 1st because our goals were not realistic.

Setting realistic goals is the main thing to do. If you want to lose 40 pounds by March 1st, you know that is almost impossible. Make your goals consist of several small goals that you know you can reach. Give yourself a break, you need to succeed so make it possible. When it comes to weight loss, break down the main goal by 5 or 10 pounds at a time, then when you drop those pounds, it is a goal accomplished. Add some reasonable exercise goals and as you accomplish those goals, you will also improve your chances of success with the weight loss.

The same ideas apply to your work. If you are self employed it is essential that you have goals, but they must be attainable goals. Don't start the New Year by deciding to make a million dollars this year. Instead make the resolution to increase your revenue by $500.00 each month. Then make a plan that helps you do this. Keep a journal so you will be the only thing holding you back. It sounds simple but remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. Be realistic, succeed, then give yourself a pat on the back.

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3/6/2010 @ 9:47:23 am by bettermentally.com

Improving Coping Skills

The stresses of bills, work, family and more can seem overwhelming. Team these normal everyday stresses with an uncertain employment pool or anything else that may weigh heavily on your mind and coping can become difficult. Sometimes, emotions can get the best of us, but it is important to learn how to manage the stress in a productive and effective way. This often means learning new coping skills.

Stress can cause all sorts of negative effects on the body and mind. The first thing you need to do is learn how to relax. High blood pressure can be deadly, so taking a deep breath and deciding the best ways to cope is important. Social support is a good way to improve coping skills. You don’t have to deal with life alone and there are always others who are dealing with the same issues. Relaxation exercises and meditation are also extremely helpful. Some find activities such as yoga help them clear their minds. It really often just takes doing something you love to take your mind off the negative things in life.

Grounding exercises are a wonderful way to improve coping skills. These allow you to live in the moment rather than continually reliving the situation causing the stress. It is important that stress is dealt with rather than erased, but it’s equally important to refrain from placing blame. Active problem solving is another technique that helps coping skills. If you can directly solve the problem, focus on how and make up your mind to do it. Your family doctor, psychologist or counselor can help you find healthy ways to deal with stress and manage it in the healthiest ways possible. Seek help if you need it and realize that improving coping skills will help everything fall into place.

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